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| Saturday pancakes |
Three kids rush in the door with bags full of candy that
they bought with their “Bible dollars” from Camp Extreme.
Rhys, the youngest of the 3 screams, “Hi Sunnye!”
“Hi Rhys!” I exclaim.
Suspiciously, Rhys inquires, “How do you know my name?”
“You just look like a Rhys.” I say.
“Oh. Do you have any Skittles?”
What would Jesus do?
Clearly, Jesus would eat Skittles.
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| Bat Hugo with Rhys |
Since entering my full-throttle, vagabond lifestyle, I have
waded through waterfalls, taught kids about sea turtles & whales, and seen
my first sperm whale in Dominica. I have experienced the worst turbulence of my
life over the Alps. I have learned how to drive stick shift and hung out with
baboons in South Africa. I have swum with dolphins, taken my first helicopter ride and seen my first whale
shark and manta ray in Mozambique. I have renewed my love for rocks, had a
close encounter with wild horses, been to the driest vineyard in the world, walked with penguins,
eaten 75 oysters and hiked the dunes in Namibia. I have given the
scariest and best speech of my life at my brother’s wedding and run the 10K
Pride Run in Los Angeles, CA. I have hiked 8 miles along the beach, saw my
first rattlesnake and received my yoga teacher training certification in Baja,Mexico. I have reunited with old friends, taught my first yoga class at a
warehouse that assembles guitar amps, and renewed my love for margaritas,
peacocks, and alligator gars in Houston, TX. And the adventure continues in the exotic coastal village of
Tampa, Florida.
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| Sunnye, Kristi and a giant horchata at the Taco Bus |
Why Tampa, you ask?
I have family there. Someone told me recently that you can’t choose your
family and my response was… “The
hell I can.” So, I went to visit a chunk of adopted family members known as The
Bennett’s. I have known the
Bennett’s for about 12 years when they were just 3 (Rick, Kristi and their dog,
Marley). Since meeting them in
Houston, living near them in Boston and now visiting them in Florida, they have
grown to 6 with the help of their kids: Gillian (10), Aedan (9) and Rhys
(5). As a side note, I was present
for the birth of Aedan so I feel particularly indebted to Rick, Kristi, and
Aedan for allowing me to witness such a life-changing natural event!
To borrow the phrase from my former supervisor, the Bennett
household (especially when adding me and my dog, Hugo to the mix) is in a
fairly consistent state of “controlled chaos.” There were so many hilarious things said during my two-week
stay. I tried to capture a good sample:
Gillian: “I don’t
have time to play Minecraft (iPhone game) every second of my life! Aedan is
being dramatical.”
Kristi: “Is
Dramatical a word? (No answer) IS DRAMATICAL A WORD?!!
Gillian: “No.”
Kristi: “Good. I was
testing you. Now, go apologize to your brother.”
(After reading a bedtime story I wrote for my blog)
Rhys: “Sunnye, next
time will you tell us a story from your mouth and not from your computer?”
(After bring on the toilet for several minutes…)
Rhys: “I think I’m
pooping.”
Kristi: “I know when
poop is comin’ outta my butt. So you better know too.”
Aedan: “You know
what I say? When something is broken, you should just break it more…or sell it
at a thrift store.”
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| One of the many formidable Florida thunderstorms |
After Gillian played with my Blackberry for several minutes,
I later noticed that I had a few texts and a missed call from Katniss
Everdeen.
Sunnye: “You spend
way too much time on that brain-sucking iPad.”
Rhys: “But I love
the brain-sucking iPad.”
To satiate a desire to manipulate a 5-year-old, I had the
following conversation:
Sunnye: “Rhys, will
you buy me dinner?
Rhys: “No!”
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| Aedan in Padmasana |
Sunnye: “But why
not? Pleeeeaaase?”
Rhys: “But I don’t
even know how to buy dinner!”
Sunnye: (curling her
lip looking helpless) “So, I don’t get to eat? But I’m so hungry…”
Rhys: “Ohhhh, you
always make that face. Ok, fine I’ll buy you dinner, but I don’t even know
how.”
We shared meals, watched movies, went to the beach, hung out
with cool neighbors, drank craft beer served by hipsters, and dodged
thunderstorms. Two of my favorite activities were morning runs with Hugo and
yoga practice teaching with Kristi. Aedan even took about 20 minutes of instruction
from me and retained a shockingly large yogic vocabulary in that time. Adho
Mukah Svanasana, Dandasana, Tadasana, Balasana, Urdhva Mukah Svanasana,
Samasthiti. His mind was a steel trap for
Sanskrit.
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| Watching the gators |
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| Brainstorming story ideas on the Weedon Island boardwalk |
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| Leaving the shells & taking the trash at Shell Key |
During my second week I held the 1st Annual 2012
Sunnye’s Movable Ecology Camp with Gillian, Aedan, and neighbor, Julia as my
first campers. I looked back to my
ETL grad school journals for planning and guidance. I created mini field guides of Florida birds, butterflies
& insects, mammals, reptiles, amphibians, and trees. Over 3 days, we visited 3 sites: John
Sargeant Park near the Hillsborough River, Weedon Island in Tampa Bay and Shell
Key, one of the barrier islands near St. Pete.
Gillian was a genius
storyteller, Aedan was a master birder, and Julia was the frog finding
princess. We found tiny toads peppering every trail, alligators meandering in
the creek, herons and ibises perched in the mangrove and cypress forests,
gopher tortoises digging burrows, raccoon scat filled with seeds and crab claws,
plastics on beaches, and a love for snorkeling even when the visibility was
crap. We wrote in our journals, did leaf rubbings under a pavilion while the rain drenched the world around us and even got a wee bit lost on the Boy Scout Trail at Weedon Island. We got tired and thirsty and refused to eat our sandwiches, but we
created stories from our experiences all the same.
Despite the rain that came every day, we
had fun and we hiked a total of 6 miles to boot. We had dinner, a slide show and read our stories aloud on the last night. And as graduation presents, I
gave them goodie bags donated by my friend, Cheryl who works for NOAA. Aedan was so excited about his new
water bottle and North Atlantic right whale figurine that he decided to build
his own right whale out of Legos. Can your iPad do that? I didn't think so. As far as I know, there is no (nor will there ever be) an App for Nature or Family.
